Mealtime with a child on the autism spectrum can sometimes feel like a battle. Many kids prefer the same foods, avoid certain textures, or resist trying anything new. The good news? With the right strategies, you can turn mealtimes into calmer, more positive moments.

Practical Feeding Strategies

Here are some approaches that can make a big difference:

• Start Small: Introduce new foods in tiny amounts alongside familiar favorites. Even a single bite—or just having the food on the plate—is progress.

• Use Visual Supports: Show pictures of foods or create a simple mealtime schedule so your child knows what to expect.

• Make Gradual Changes: If your child loves chicken nuggets, try adjusting shape, brand, or cooking method before moving to a new protein.

• Encourage Exploration: Let your child touch, smell, or play with food without pressure to eat it. Sensory play can reduce anxiety.

• Model Eating: Sit together and eat the same foods. Children often feel more open when they see others enjoying the meal.

• Keep Pressure Low: Avoid forcing bites or using mealtime as a power struggle. Gentle encouragement and praise for small steps go a long way.

• Celebrate Wins: Clapping, high-fives, or verbal praise for tasting—or even tolerating—a new food can help build confidence.

• Create Calm Routines: Consistency around when and where meals happen helps reduce stress and resistance.

At Blossom ABA Therapy, we know feeding challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our team provides personalized support through home-based ABA, center-based ABA, and school-based ABA programs. We serve families across Georgia, Tennessee, Virginia, and North Carolina.

Reach out today—we’d love to help make mealtime a happier, less stressful experience for your family.

FAQs

Why do children with autism often struggle with feeding?

Feeding challenges in autism are usually linked to sensory sensitivities, strong food preferences, or difficulty with changes in routine.

How can I get my child with autism to try new foods?

Start small. Offer tiny portions of new foods alongside favorites, encourage touching or smelling first, and celebrate every little step forward.

Can ABA therapy help with picky eating in autism?

Yes. ABA therapy can support positive mealtime behaviors, reduce stress, and teach children gradual ways to accept new foods.

Sources:

• https://www.autismspeaks.org/expert-opinion/autism-food-refusal-mealtime-tips

• https://www.autism.org.uk/what-we-do/autism-know-how/training/enhance-your-autism-knowledge-and-practice/autism-eating-challenges

• https://www.marcus.org/autism-resources/autism-tips-and-resources/eating-habits-when-to-worry

• https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8323334/

• https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1941406413502808